I deeply regret having sex with my friend’s boyfriend. It was a huge error in judgement. I learned that our choices have repercussions, and sometimes, we suffer greatly for our wrongdoings.
Sex is a natural and beautiful thing that can bring two people closer. But sometimes, it can cause chaos and pain, which can affect relationships badly.
As the COVID pandemic was easing in early 2022, I landed a job in Nairobi. Apondi is my friend, whom we studied together at Masinde Muliro University in Kakamega.
We were tight friends. She hosted me for three months in her South C rented apartment, and I was able to find my own place, which was just in the neighbouring estate. At the time, she was dating Tim, a true definition of tall, dark and handsome. He had a cute, deep voice.
Their relationship was tight, and I admired them. I was single back then; sometimes, I felt lonely and insecure.
But I knew Tim was off-limits, and I would never do anything to jeopardise my friendship with Apondi.
Setting up my BFF’s boyfriend to chew me
However, one evening, things took a turn. Apondi had travelled to her rural home in Seme, Kisumu, leaving Tim without informing him. It was apparent they had had a little argument, which is normal.
The night she left, I was watching Netflix and playing with myself (if you know, you know) when I heard a knock on my door.
I was hesitant to answer. I was having a good time with myself.
“Hello? is anybody home?”
It was Tim’s voice. He thought Apondi was at my place. I quickly jumped, dressed and opened for him.
Instead of telling him Apondi was not around so he could leave, I opened the door for him to enter. He came in and sat on a chair. He looked disturbed and a little depressed; I wondered what was wrong with him.
“Tim! Is everything okay?” I asked.
He told me he had a little argument with Apondi and needed to talk to her, but she wasn’t picking up her phone.
When I told him she had gone home for the weekend, his mood changed completely, and he looked sad.
Being the good girl that I am, I decided to try to cheer him up.
“She will be back; she’s just a little pissed, you know her, don’t worry… come, let’s watch a movie together,” I told him.
I knew he needed someone to comfort him. So he came to me in the bed, and we laid down together.
We watched a movie and cuddled. His mood changed, and he wasn’t looking that sad anymore.
Effects of dry spell and lack of a boyfriend
We talked and laughed, and somehow, I started feeling some chemistry between us. I knew it was wrong, but. I couldn’t resist it. Dry spell na corona economy ilikuwa imenichapa ile mbaya.
As the night went on, we became more and more comfortable with each other. We started flirting, and before I knew it, we were doing adult things already.
I kept telling myself to stop, but the physical attraction was too intense. There I was on the bed with my roommate’s boyfriend, kissing passionately and licking his soft lips like a little boy enjoying lollipops or cheap ice pop.
I tried to stop, but I couldn’t. He was a very good kisser and… to be honest? I was craving for some real pounding and now the opportunity had brought itself. How was I going to let it slide?
I rubbed his southern kingdom as we kissed. He had his fingers rolling on my oranges, and that was enough to leave me high and not very dry.
I could hear him breathing and moaning as I gently licked him. I had dreamt about doing this for a while.
His weapon became bigger, and I couldn’t help it anymore, so I changed into my birthday suit and got on him.
That was how it started. It was one of the best feelings ever. We had multiple positions throughout that night.
Everything happened on the same bed where I slept with Apondi, my best friend and sweet and loving ex-roommate.
Afterwards, I was filled with guilt and regret. I couldn’t believe what I had just done. I knew that it was wrong, and I was terrified of how Apondi would react if she ever found out.
But we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Every time Apondi was away, Tim would come to my place, and we would have mind-blowing time together. I tried to convince myself that it was just physical and that we were just having fun, but deep down, I knew it was more than that.
Things became complicated. Apondi started to suspect something was going on between me and Tim. At some point, she would ask me if I had feelings for him. I always denied it, but I could see the doubts in her eyes.
So, one day, she confronted me again and asked if anything was going on. I couldn’t lie to her anymore, so I admitted everything. She was broken and angry; I couldn’t blame her. I had betrayed her trust and ruined our friendship.
Tim and I tried to make things work, but the guilt was terrible. We decided to end things.
Apondi broke up with Tim, and our friendship was never the same again.
I lost my best friend and any chance of being with Tim, but that was just the beginning of my troubles.
After two months, I lost my job. Imagine! And I was just recovering from covid shocks. I could hardly pay my rent, food became a luxury, and the landlord was all over me.
I was forced to return to my rural home in Nkubu, Meru.
In the village, it was like everybody knew what I had done to my friend.
I was met with negative energy; nobody wanted to associate with me. I was seen as a loser. Even my church friends grew cold with me. I used a little savings to open a kibanda business, but I could not run it for more than two months. The business closed.
After that, I started being sickly, always in and out of hospitals. I was not badly off, but my energy level was very down. It was only getting worse during my menses; it was hell, I tell you.
My mom took me to prophets, pastors and crusades for prayers but it was all in vain.
It was my aunt who saved me after she referred me to herbalist Mugwenu Doctors, who cleansed me.
“You lady, the person you offended is taking her sweet revenge on you. She has used the evil eye against you. So that you suffer slowly. You need to tender a proper apology so that the cleansing spell I am going to cast can be effective,” Mugwenu Doctors said.
I looked for Apondi. I called her, and she agreed to forgive me.
Meanwhile, the spell Mugwenu Doctors gave me was working wonders. My health improved. I soon got another job in Nairobi and this enabled me to restart my life.
My family is now receptive to me, and my ways and thoughts have become clearer since then.
Looking back, I realise how foolish and selfish I was. I let my desires and insecurities cloud my judgment, and I destroyed a beautiful relationship and a cherished friendship.
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