“The Night I Caught My Wife Cheating Changed My Life Forever”

It was a painful experience when my wife cheated on me—and the worst part was, there was nothing I could do. That is exactly what happened to me. Alcohol and diabetes nearly destroyed my life, but by the grace of God, I am now on the path to recovery.

I work for a county government as a Ward Representative. Before that, I was a farmer. I am married with four children, and I have always loved my wife dearly.

Unfortunately, alcohol became my greatest downfall. At work, no one knew the extent of my drinking. I would wake up, pass by a pub, drink two bottles, then head straight to the office. In the beginning, I managed my duties well, but as time went by, alcohol consumed me. I started sleeping in pubs, skipping work, and almost lost my job several times. The only reason I survived was because a fellow MCA always defended me.

When I received my first salary of over Ksh 40,000, life changed drastically. I had never handled such money before. Back when I was a farmer, I only had two true friends. But with money, I attracted more people—friends who eventually led me into more mistakes.

Then came the real blow: two months ago, I was diagnosed with diabetes. It started when I noticed blood in my urine. At the hospital, doctors confirmed it. From there, my health declined fast. My performance in bed weakened, I struggled to walk upright, and my eyesight started failing. I decided to quit alcohol, hoping things would improve, but diabetes remained, and my marital life grew worse.

One evening, as I arrived home from work around 8 p.m., I caught my wife with our watchman right at the gate. Her words and actions crushed me. When I confronted her, she boldly told me, “How do you expect me to survive when you are nothing in bed?”

That statement broke me, but it also pushed me to seek help. A friend of mine, Joseph, told me about Dr. Mugwenu, a traditional herbalist who had helped him before. He even gave me the doctor’s contact number: +254740637248.

Before reaching out, I confirmed his credibility. I emailed him at mugwenudoctors@gmail.com and also visited his website to see the conditions he treats. Once I was convinced, I paid him a visit.

Dr. Mugwenu gave me herbal medicine. Since then, my health has been improving steadily. My strength is returning, my wife is happy again, and most importantly, I have completely quit alcohol. The herbal remedies are not only restoring my libido but also helping manage my diabetes. I am hopeful that by the end of this year, my life will be fully back to normal.