“He Left Me for Another Woman — But What Happened Next Shocked Us Both”

“How I Got My Husband Back After He Left Me for Another Woman” – Jecinta Mwaluke from Arusha, Tanzania

My name is Jecinta Mwaluke, a teacher based in Arusha. What happened to me in June 2017 nearly pushed me to the edge. I’m sharing my story so that other women—especially those dealing with mpango wa kando (mistresses)—can learn something from my experience.

I got married in 2007 in a church wedding. My husband was working as an accountant at a government office in Dar es Salaam, and I joined him after our marriage. Life started well. Though I was unemployed at the time, he provided for us, and we were blessed with three children between 2008 and 2014.

In 2015, I secured a teaching job in Arusha under the government. This meant relocating while my husband remained in Dar. We agreed that he would visit over weekends, and at first, he did—every end of the month without fail.

But in 2016, he was transferred to Mtwara, and things began to change. The distance made visits less frequent. He went from visiting monthly to not coming for three straight months. The last time he came, he seemed different. He had locked his phone—something he had never done before. When I asked, he snapped, “Why are you monitoring me? Can’t you just be happy I came to see you?”

That weekend, he left me with TSh 10,000 only—far less than usual. I knew something wasn’t right.

The following month, he never came. I called and asked what was going on, and he just said, “Work has kept me busy.” I waited a few weeks, but my gut told me to travel to Mtwara and find out for myself.

I didn’t tell him I was coming.

I arrived around 10pm. I knew his house from when I had helped him move in. Before knocking, I heard voices from inside. A woman was laughing, and then I heard moaning and my husband’s voice saying things I cannot forget.

I felt sick.

I knocked. No answer. I banged on the door and shouted, “Joseph! Is this how you treat your wife?!”

He eventually opened the door. Inside, there was a light-skinned woman in a towel. My heart broke. When I confronted him, he yelled, “Who told you to come here?! Go back to Arusha and don’t return!”

The woman left quietly, and I was forced to sleep on the couch.

The next morning, he gave me back my wedding ring and said, “You’re shapeless. Whether you like it or not, I’m marrying her.” Then he told me to leave.

I went back home crushed and in tears.

Two months later, I heard he had officially married the woman. He blocked my calls and completely cut communication with me and the children. I was alone—paying school fees, rent, and taking care of the kids with my teacher’s salary.

I tried praying. Nothing changed. Then one day, I googled “how to get your husband back from a mpango wa kando.” That’s when I came across Dr. Mugwenu.

I was skeptical, but I was also desperate.

I called the number I found: +254 740 637 248. The number was registered to Dr. Mugwenu, a traditional herbalist based in Nairobi, Kenya. He asked me a few questions, listened to my story, and told me to visit his clinic—or, if I couldn’t travel, he would help me through distance healing.

I decided to give it a try.

Two weeks after our session, something strange happened. My husband called me late at night. He was crying. He said he had been in pain for days and his manhood had stopped working. He was scared and begged me to pray for him.

His new wife had already left him.

He told me he had made a huge mistake and wanted to come back home. I could hardly believe it.

A few days later, he traveled to Arusha and apologized to me and the children. Since then, things have slowly returned to normal. We are rebuilding our marriage—and this time, stronger.

To anyone facing betrayal or heartbreak, I advise you to reach out to Dr. Mugwenu. He helped me when I thought all was lost.

Just like a medical doctor, Dr. Mugwenu does a full diagnosis before offering help. He handles love issues, court cases, business problems, health challenges, and more.

You can visit his website at www.mugwenudoctors.com, or contact him via WhatsApp or call +254 740 637 248. You may also write to him at mugwenudoctors@gmail.com.

Don’t let distance discourage you—Dr. Mugwenu also offers distance healing that works no matter where you are.